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I planted six trees in the park.
Two survived.
Was I successful?
Hold onto that question.
Carry it with you as you read this interactive book.
We'll come back to it at the end.
What if I was like everybody else? What if a two-week vacation was enough? What if I was normal? What if I thought like everyone else? Where would I be? What would I do?
Sometimes I wonder why I chose this path. Owning a business isn't easy.
Normal is easy. A two-week vacation fits inside the system. It fits inside the PTO. It fits inside someone else's approval. It doesn't require you to do anything. That's the safe path. That's what everyone does.
But normal has never built anything remarkable. The path is a dead end.
I wanted to explore. I wanted to live on my own terms. So I drove thousands of miles all over the world. I drove, Portugal. Spain. France. Ireland. Costa Rica. Mexico. Panama. Puerto Rico. Barbados. The Bahamas. The United States minus Alaska and Hawaii. I took 3+ month trips. I lived and worked remotely for years. I did it with four kids. I did it without money. I did it with money.
I'm not special. I know people who've done way more than me. People who took bigger risks, longer trips, made crazier moves. There's always someone operating at a higher level.
That's not the point.
This isn't about being the biggest story in the room. It's about refusing to be a small one.
A six-month trip forced me to rethink everything. It forced me to create better structure, processes, communication, and flow. It forced me to build better systems. I automated repetitive tasks. Automation freed up more of my time.
Time can be saved. Money can be generated. Skills can be learned. I built simple systems quickly and freed up my time. I structured my life around mobility. I didn't hope for it. I engineered it. I planned it. It was my mindset from the start.
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“Don't copy shit. Build something only you can build.”
I remember graduation day. I was so stoked. I was going to walk out of college and get the highest paying job in town. After all, I graduated with honors. Had the degree, the portfolio, the grades to match. Went home after graduation thinking I'd get hired in a split second.
One no means nothing. Ten means nothing.
What if one no was enough? What if I quit after Jacksonville? What if I quit after Miami? I wouldn't be here. None of this would exist. The mindset is simple. Don't quit at one no. Don't quit at a hundred. Put in the reps. Don't copy shit. Build something only you can build. Talk to Bob like a friend. Be weird on purpose. That's the whole game.
“Break the mold or get crushed by people who do.”
Web Marketing Pros era. Many agencies in Jacksonville were outsourcing their marketing and web work to us. One agency was paying me about 15k a month to handle their white-label work. On paper, it was a dream client.
These brands broke the mold. They went weird. They went big. They won.
These brands played it safe. They copied. They protected the past. They disappeared.
These brands swung big and missed. Their lesson: weird needs a point.
The mold has 3 sides. Pick the right one.
What if I'd kept that customer? Kept hiding behind the same old playbook everyone else was running? I'd have stayed comfortable. I'd have stayed small. I'd have stayed broke in a different way. The brands that win break the mold on purpose. They take the swing. The ones that play it safe end up like Blockbuster. Like Kodak. Like Sears. Gone. Be different on purpose. Take the swing. Don't be reckless, but don't be boring either. Boring is the slowest way to die.
“Don't attract customers. Create fans.”
I had thirty k in my pocket. I had some breathing room. Just enough cash to take a swing, so I spun off Small Business SEO.
What if I did the same boring stuff everyone else was doing? Nobody would've noticed. I was me. I was unique. I told a better story. I did what the brand promised. Every time. That's what builds a kick ass brand. The delivery.
“You're either the bottleneck or the architect.”
I grew up next to Rolling Hills Golf Course in South Florida. The course where Caddyshack was filmed. I watched them blow up the golf course for the gopher scene. They really blew it up. It was cool. Famous course. Lots of water hazards. Golfers always hit balls in the ponds and had no way to get them.
What if I'd just stayed at $200 a weekend? The golf balls business scaled because I built a system around it. The swimmers. The cleaners. The dryers. The egg cartons. Every piece doing its job whether I was there or not. That's the difference between a hustle and a business. Find the gaps. Know Bob. Build the system. Write it down. Then get out of the way and let it run. Hustles cap. Systems scale. You're either the bottleneck or you're the architect.
“Be the person who picks up the tin can.”
Late Friday night in college. I'm at Blockbuster picking out a movie. On the counter there's a tin can full of AOL CDs. Free internet, fifty hours, dial-up. I grab one. Throw it in the bag with the movie. Get home. Pop the disk in. Wait for the dial up modem to connect. Fourteen-four kb per second. The internet loads. I click around. Doesn't really do anything. "Dang, this is stupid."
Three types of businesses. Where are you?
They're losing slowly.
What if I'd left the tin can on the counter? I wouldn't be here. Every wave looks stupid until it's not. The brands that survive pick it up early. The ones that don't get killed. AI is the current tin can. The companies using it now are years ahead of the ones still waiting. The ones who never pick it up are already dying. Learn it or become obsolete.
“If it's boring, kill it.”
It's not working. People are interested, but no one is ordering. I'm sitting there looking at our site scratching my head. The branding is weak. The design is weak. We look like everyone else. Same basic, starter, premium packages. Same presentation. Same copy. We were copycats. Nothing unique. Nothing special. Nothing that says we're different. Just blah.
What if I did the same boring content as everyone else? Nobody would've noticed. Our story created a connection. Every blog post. Every email. Every video said it. Connection beats reach. Tell stories Bob has to hear, build sites that feed AI search, make videos Bob shares, and earn trust. Stop being noise and make your content kick ass.
“Don't wait for permission. It never comes.”
SBS was booming. I closed twelve customers in one day. I was stoked. I'm thinking. How do I make this bigger? How do I scale this? Then COVID hits. Everything stops. Everyone's pulling back. Cutting ads. Retreating. Trying to survive. Smart money says do the same.
What if I'd retreated when everyone else did? I wouldn't be here. I'd have been just another voice in a loud room. I attacked. I kept going. And when the market came back, my brand was the only one Bob remembered. Attacking when everyone else retreats isn't reckless. It's the most calculated move in business. Read the signals. Find the gaps. Hit hard. Position yourself for the bounce. Attack when they are weak.
“Creative beats expensive. Every time.”
I had this cushy job, good money, but the boss ran things poorly. We wasted so much time. I was running the whole web department. One day after another stupid meeting I start thinking. Why am I making this guy rich? I don't like him. He's not nice.
What if I'd just waited? I had a newborn, a mortgage, no income, and no customers. The timing sucked. If I'd waited for the budget to make sense I would never have left. Instead, I got creative. Free Google coupons. Craigslist gigs. Whatever moved the needle. That's guerrilla warfare. Use what you have. Get in Bob's face without a budget. Pull stunts. Turn customers into your marketing team. Use the free tools. Hijack the trends. Then when the money comes in, don't stop.
“When it's working, you don't hit the brakes. You hit the gas.”
Thursday morning at 10am I'm meeting with Alex. Credit repair space. This was back when that industry was absolutely booming. Money everywhere. Easy money. His campaign's running hot. Leads are pouring in. Business is stacking up. He's busy. Really busy. So naturally, he wants to pause the campaign.
When it's hot, scale.
What if I paused like Alex did? Protected what I had instead of pushing for more? I'd have ended up exactly where he did. When you see traction, you scale. You don't hit the brakes. You hit the gas. Turn it up. Hire faster. Don't touch what's working. Build a second engine while the first one is hot. Because the door doesn't stay open forever.
“If your company needs you to survive, you don't have a business. You have a job that pays well.”
I was running my company solo for a while. Just me. Handling everything. Sales, delivery, customer service. All of it. There was so much work. I couldn't handle it all anymore. So I hired Kevin. I had a one year old at home. People were looking at me like I was crazy. We just started making money and now you're hiring someone? Taking on payroll when things are still shaky?
If it can run without you, it's a business. And once you've built one, you can build another.
What if I'd kept doing it all myself? Stayed solo. Kept the business small enough to hold in my own hands? I'd still be there. Coding websites at 2am. Stuck. Real leadership is hiring before you're ready. Breaking the work into pieces someone else can run. Working alongside your team so they see what the standard is. Then removing yourself so the thing runs without you. If the business needs you to survive, it's a job. If it can run without you, it's a business. And once you've built one, you can build another. The level is infinite.
“How you handle the BS is what matters. Not the BS itself.”
I'm watching an Adam Sandler movie with my wife at our house. There's a knock on the door. I answer it. Some guy I don't know asks if I am Peter Roesler. I say yes. He hands me papers. "You've been served." Shit, what?
What if I'd let that lawsuit eat me up? Sat in it for two and a half years? Stopped building? The business would've been gone before the case was dismissed. Instead I got calm. Looked at what I had. Called people I knew. Got a lawyer through a friend. Kept working. Kept moving forward. That's the whole game with BS. It's coming. You don't get to avoid it. But you do get to choose how you handle it. Don't react. Respond. Get calm. Find your people. Keep moving. Because how you handle the BS is what matters. Not the BS itself.
“Money is just a tool to get you where you want to go.”
Late morning breakfast at Purosurf in El Salvador. Me and my buddy from Waco. We just got out of the water. Salt still on our skin. Coffee in front of us. We're sitting there talking about life, business, whatever.
Drag the sliders to your real numbers. You can't reinvest what you can't track.
These are your numbers, not a guess. Track them monthly. When they hold up, scale.
What if I'd looked at those first profitable orders and decided to play it safe? Pocketed the money? Kept the spend low? I'd still be stuck at a few orders a week. Instead I looked at the metrics. The tracking was dialed. The math was clear. So I poured it back in. Turned up the ad spend. Trusted the numbers. Cost me a lot to get there. But the goal was never to make a little money. The goal was to scale. That's what money is for. Not hoarding. Not collecting. Using. As a tool. To get you where you want to go.
“I don't do anything half-assed. That's not a business rule. That's how I live.”
4 AM. Wake up. Crossword puzzle. Stretch.
What if I'd waited? I'd be exactly where everyone else is. Building the same old websites with the same old tools, fighting for the same customers. I started grinding. Six months in no ROI. Lots of time and money spent. But I'm smarter. I'm faster. I'm building the best websites ever built. And the demand is growing. Because the work is so damn good they can't ignore it. That's what leading the charge is. See where it's going. Grind every day and get so good at it they can't ignore you.
“Comfort kills more growth than failure ever has.”
I don't do anything half-assed. My mentality is simple. Do it a thousand times. Not once. Not ten times. A thousand. Repetition builds clarity. Volume builds skill. Skill builds leverage. Most people quit at twenty reps and call it experience. That's not experience. That's exposure. There's a difference.
What if there was a finish line? A number to hit? A moment where you get to stop pushing? There isn't. That's the whole thing. There is no destination. There is only stronger every day. Volume builds skill. Skill builds leverage. Push past comfort because comfort kills growth. Build something that outlives you. Your legacy isn't what you accumulate. It's what you build, what you pass on, what you inspire. Train people. Mentor people. Set standards that ripple out. The more people you inspire, the bigger your legacy. That's the Balls Out mentality. It never stops. The level is infinite.
“You cannot become successful until you define what success is.”
Wake up. 5:55 AM. Jump in the truck. Head to the gym.
What if I'd never asked these questions? Just kept chasing money because that's what everyone said to chase? I'd be exactly like the people I see all the time. Rich on paper. Miserable in real life. Building businesses they hate. I defined my success. Three simple things. Freedom. Mobility. Time. That's what matters to me. That's why I consider myself successful. I know where to focus. Define your success. Three things. Write them down. Because if you don't know what success then you can't achieve it. And that's the whole point.
I planted six trees in the park.
Four died. Two lived. Was I successful?
Most people answer that with one of three mindsets.
The Quitter looks at four dead trees and decides planting isn't for him. The system failed. The soil was bad. He walks away and never plants again.
The Defeatist focuses so hard on what died that he kills what survived. He stares at the four empty holes and forgets to water the two trees that made it. The loss becomes the focus and everything else dies too.
The Mathematician runs the numbers. If four out of six died, then next time he needs to plant twelve to get four. Then twenty four to get eight. He's so busy calculating the loss rate that he forgets why he was planting in the first place.
None of those are me. I think differently.
Every tree I plant has the potential to bear fruit. I don't obsess over the four that died. I focus on the two that lived. I nurture those. I make them stronger. I figure out how to plant more like them. I put my energy where it's working.
And I keep planting.
If I'd never planted anything, there'd be no trees. Instead, there's two new trees in the park providing shade, fun, and eventually fruit for everyone.
So was I successful?
Yeah. Not because two trees lived.
Because tomorrow morning, I'm planting six more. The goal wasn't to plant six trees. The goal was to plant a forest, six trees at a time. Think bigger.
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